i don't like to change for anyone. i've always been like that, known what i've wanted and worked for that while ignoring the rest of the world. I might change for you.. if you said you were sick or lost . or any other of my soft spots. it's lucky that you know my soft spots so you can talk shit and manipulate me into caring and changing. but that's not what you're supposed to do.

when you're in a relationship you're not supposed to take advantage of the other person's weaknesses and their past mistakes. you don't judge them and you don't exploit them. if that's what you're doing that's not love.. that's selfish and caring about yourself - you're pride, reputation, money and boys...